Toi Et Moi Engagement Rings

The Milagros Guide

Toi et moi lab grown diamond engagement rings, made to order in New York

Toi et moi means "you and me" in French. A toi et moi ring has two main stones side by side, one for each partner. The two stones can be the same shape or two different shapes, like a pear with an oval or an emerald with a round. It is a romantic, modern style with a long history.

How to choose a toi et moi ring

  • 01Two shapes

    Pick two shapes you love. Matching shapes look balanced; mixed shapes look unique and personal.

  • 02Size

    The two stones can be the same size or slightly different. Mixed sizes often look more natural and artistic.

  • 03Setting

    Many toi et moi rings use a bypass band that wraps around the finger. Open gap designs leave a small space between the stones.

Our promise

Every center stone comes with its own IGI report, and the report number is laser-inscribed on the diamond. Choose 10K, 14K or 18K gold, or platinum on many designs. Each ring is made to order at our New York office and arrives in 12–14 business days, with free insured shipping in the US.

Questions

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Learn more in our diamond guide and engagement ring guide, or compare three stone and designer engagement rings. See real prices by carat in our lab grown diamond price guide.

What does toi et moi mean?

It is French for "you and me." The two stones stand for two people coming together.

Can I choose the two diamond shapes?

Yes. Many of our designs can be made with different shape pairs. Ask our team or use the Custom Text box on the ring page.

Can I change the metal or the center stone?

Yes. Most designs come in 10K, 14K or 18K gold, or platinum. You can request a different center stone size, color or clarity in the Custom Text box on the ring page, or ask our team.

Can I see a ring in person?

Yes. Book an appointment at our office at 580 5th Ave, Suite 2300, New York, or meet us on a video call.